Showing posts with label Cheerios. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cheerios. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Why we all owe Trayvon an apology

I tried to not talk about the case this week, but as I tried to type my fingers went that direction. My apologies. The issue isn't that Zimmerman is guilty its that America is guilty. We all have some small role to play in the way things went down.  America is full of racism and issues beyond stand your ground or self defense. For those who think the case has nothing to do with race, shut the hell up. It does. If you don't see it involving race at all, then you live in a much better America than I do. See this video for a little bit of truth.

 

I think to overcome racial issues and profiling, we must first admit it.  I think Zimmerman profiled Martin as a criminal and decided to pursue him. Not the right thing to do. I also think Martin profiled Zimmerman. I think he saw a lighter skinned guy following him with a very low haircut. Almost like a skin-head, and feared this guy wanted to start a fight. Martin might have gotten aggressive. Not the right thing to do. 

I do think that profiling, while at the surface is wrong, serves a purpose.  When used defensively, I think it is fully acceptable. Now before you crucify me for saying profiling is OK, hear me out. Think about a dear friend of yours, preferably a female with a race that differs from yours (for extreme purposes). Imagine she is walking down the street and a group of rough looking dudes of your OWN race is approaching her on the same side walk. She's alone. Would you tell her not to profile the group and not cross the street to be safe? Ten times out of ten, I'm going to tell her to be smart. Who cares if you offend them? Its not worth the risk. Many a times I have walked down the street and seen a woman cross over or clutch her purse. I don't get upset because there are dudes who look like me that are doing dirt. You are not responsible for your entire race. All you can do is be a good example of what you represent and lead by example.

My issue is when the profiling becomes offensive or aggressive

Zimmerman. He profiled and became the aggressor and pursued Martin. Martin in turn was most likely offended and afraid. He profiled a light skinned man with a buzzed head in the dark as a racist wanting to start trouble. He most likely got aggressive. Where Zimmerman is wrong and why he should have been found guilty of SOMETHING was the original pursuit of Martin. One plus one is two, and Zimmerman put that initial one and one together and the result was a dead teenager. Martin is also wrong for getting aggressive. But this article isn't being written to convince you of guilty or not guilty. Your opinion won't change. We all know this.

Rather, this is written to say that America is the problem. As a black man in America, I can see the case in a view that six suburban jurors can not. They, in turn, can see it in a way that I can not.  I don't fault the jurors. They weren't raised black in America. They don't know we are raised to be on our toes because our parents and grandparents had to be. They don't understand why we can be so aggressive or so easily offended. They can't see why Trayvon couldn't just talk to Zimmerman in a calm manner to clarify why he was following him and why he felt like he had to fight Zimmerman from the jump. America was built on slavery and racism, and even though I am usually full of optimism I'm extremely pessimistic about significantly reducing race issues in our lifetime.  Our best bet is the next generation. 

We are the direct descendents of parents of the 1960s and Civil Rights era. That says it all. Had roles and colors been reversed, the result would have been exactly the same, and that's the sad truth. Six black women jurors would have found a black man not guilty if he shot and killed a white kid in the exact same situation. Lord knows we would have wanted to protect our own, and black people would have reacted just like white people now. Some black people would see injustice and some would chalk it up to the game. And to make things worse, the result of the Zimmerman case makes it even more likely.  The next white kid killed wrongfully by a black man, will get less sympathy from us. So damn wrong, but true. America as a whole is the problem. We all have our biases.

Our next generation actually stands a chance. Let's not ruin it by living, expressing, teaching, creating, speaking, tweeting, intstagramming, blogging and Facebook-status-posting ill-advised examples to those who are the long-term solution. The youth.

(One last thing. People stop calling for Obama to do/say something miraculous. His hands are tied. He is the President of black people and white people. For him to speak out how he probably truly feels would cause more issues than solutions. Wait until he's out of office to ask him to be that guy.)

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Are Cheerios Racist?

So there is a new Cheerios commercial out that shows an interracial couple.  Before I talk about it, watch it.


Black people are in an uproar about this. Why though?  Some comments I have heard are...


-Why the black man gotta be on the couch? This nigga ain't gotta job?
-Why the black man gotta have heart problems? They trying to saying niggas need to eat better.
-This is why interracial couples need not exist. They produce dumb kids.
-The white women is being productive. Why the nigga in sock feet on the couch making a damn mess in the living room?

I was also informed that this is also seen as a racist commercial... I just think its bizarre and weird. For the record, all of the guys in the line up are Tyler the Creator's (the creator of the ad) friends. Obviously the ridiculous looking dudes didn't do it. Hell, I would say goats are out here framing niggas!



What the hell is wrong with people?  In the first example I feel like people just want something to complain about. People automatically key in on anything they can find to be an issue. They want to focus on the "lazy black man" rather than the fact that this little girl loves her pops so much, that she would ruin his St. John's Bay button up to make him healthy. Niggas don't play with that St. John's Bay. Let's focus on the fact that they seem to be well off. Lets focus on the fact that he's in his daughter's life.

I'm in an interracial relationship and live with a white woman and two Asian women. I take couch naps like no other. I often take these couch naps in sock feet, but most times not. I like to the let air get to my feet. This probably make me look more homeless. Does that make me a dead beat nigga mooching off a white woman? What man doesn't enjoy laying on the couch. If the man wasn't laying on the couch on what seems to be a Sunday morning, then I'd be worried.

I really wish that the ad could just be an ad. This has absolutely nothing to do with race. Its about love baby. And whole grain cereal. If you disagree voice your opinion. But c'mon people. Let's focus on some real issues. Like motorcycle safety.

The healing continues.